The books we read and how they shape our lives – Part 3

Books that Shape us!

Ann Patchet gave me dreams while I was trying to sleep!

Now, sleep wasn’t always my companion during this literary odyssey. Some books, like the one I was about to delve into, were so captivating they kept me up way past my bedtime. Ann Patchet’s “Bel Canto” wasn’t a lullaby; it was a whirlwind. The story, a fictionalized account of a hostage crisis, unfolded with a captivating blend of suspense and surprising tenderness.

Here I was, bleary-eyed but utterly enthralled, as a group of hostages and their captors formed unexpected bonds amidst the chaos.”Bel Canto” wasn’t just a thrilling story; it was a meditation on the power of human connection. Patchet’s characters, from the high-powered businessmen to the young guerilla fighters, transcended their initial roles and revealed surprising depths of humanity.

The book forced me to confront my own prejudices, reminding me that empathy can bloom in the most unexpected places. As I devoured chapter after chapter, sleep became a distant memory. “Bel Canto” wasn’t just keeping me awake; it was sparking my imagination, filling my dreams with operatic arias and whispered conversations across language barriers. It was a testament to Patchet’s masterful storytelling that a story about confinement could feel so expansive, so full of possibility. Finally, bleary-eyed but exhilarated, I finished the book. The world outside my window seemed a little brighter, a little richer, thanks to the dreams “Bel Canto” had woven.

Of course, there was the Twilight Series that kept me engaged when my mind was numb. And then there were Uglies and beauties to keep my inner child occupied. And a whole lot of faeries and vampires that year that kept my mind occupied.

Admit it, there were times when my brain just needed a break. That’s when the sparkly vampires and dystopian romances waltzed in. Stephenie Meyer’s “Twilight” series wasn’t exactly highbrow literature, but it was undeniably captivating. The forbidden love story between Bella and Edward, human and vampire, scratched a melodramatic itch I didn’t even know I had. Let’s be honest, sometimes you just need a good, angsty escape into a world of supernatural swooning.And then there was Scott Westerfeld’s “Uglies” series.

This dystopian YA saga, where beauty was currency and conformity was king, tapped into my rebellious teenage spirit. Following Tally Youngblood’s journey from wanting to fit in to embracing her “ugly” side was a thrilling reminder to celebrate individuality, even (or maybe especially) when it’s deemed undesirable.That year became a whirlwind of fantastical creatures and forbidden love.

From the sparkling vampires of “Twilight” to the shapeshifting werewolves and brooding faeries in other series, my imagination ran wild. These stories, while not always the deepest, provided a welcome escape from the heavier themes I’d been grappling with. They were pure, unadulterated fun, a reminder that sometimes the best way to recharge your mind is to lose yourself in a world entirely different from your own. And who knows, maybe amidst the glitter and fangs, there were hidden messages about self-acceptance and defying expectations.

But hey, even if not, they were a heck of a good time.

The power of the Subconscious mind gave me a direction when I was lost in the sea of soul suffering.

Ah yes, that period. Lost in a sea of soul suffering. It felt like I was adrift, tossed by the waves of grief, confusion, and a yearning for something more. Then, a book called “The Power of the Subconscious Mind” appeared, a beacon in the storm. With a healthy dose of skepticism, I cracked it open.The book delved into the power of our subconscious, that vast inner ocean beneath the surface of our conscious thoughts. The idea that we could tap into this wellspring of potential, to use its power to heal and guide us, was intriguing. Maybe, just maybe, there was a way to harness this unseen force and navigate my way out of the darkness.

The book wasn’t a magic bullet, but it offered a framework, a set of tools to explore my inner world. It spoke of the power of positive thoughts and affirmations, of visualization and the incredible potential of the human mind. As I read, a flicker of hope ignited within me. Perhaps I wasn’t just a passive victim of circumstance. Perhaps I had the power to influence my own reality, to use my subconscious mind as a compass to steer me towards a brighter future.

The journey wasn’t easy. There were days when doubt and negativity threatened to pull me under again. But with each step, with each positive affirmation, I felt a shift. The sea of soul suffering didn’t vanish entirely, but it no longer felt like the only current. The power of the subconscious mind, once a theoretical concept, became a tangible force guiding me towards calmer waters. It wasn’t a quick fix, but it was a start, a newfound belief in my own ability to heal and grow.

Eckhart Tolle and the Power of Now snapped me out of my Soul Inertia and gave wind to my dreams.Stuck in the soul-sucking quicksand of inertia, I desperately needed a lifeline. Enter Eckhart Tolle’s “The Power of Now.” This book wasn’t just another self-help tome; it was a jolt to the system, a wake-up call that shattered the trance of negativity. Tolle’s message of present-moment awareness resonated deeply. He urged me to stop dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, and instead, to focus on the only thing that truly matters: the now.

It felt radical, almost counter-intuitive. Here I was, drowning in a sea of “what ifs” and “should haves,” and Tolle was telling me to focus on the breath, on the sensations in my body, on the present moment. Slowly, though, a shift began to occur. As I practiced mindfulness, the grip of negativity loosened. The constant mental chatter quieted, and a sense of calm settled over me.”The Power of Now” didn’t erase my past or my worries about the future. But it gave me a tool to deal with them – the power of present-moment awareness. With each mindful breath, I felt a renewed sense of possibility. Those dreams I’d pushed aside, suffocated by anxieties, began to resurface. They weren’t nebulous wisps anymore; they were starting to take shape, fueled by the newfound clarity and focus Tolle’s teachings had instilled in me.”The Power of Now” didn’t just snap me out of soul inertia; it gave wind to my dreams. It was a reminder that even in the midst of challenges, there is always the power of the present moment, and within it, the potential to create a future filled with possibility.

Then I found “Hippie” quite randomly as I ventured on another adventurous wild ride!

My love affair with literature wouldn’t be complete without a sprinkle of his magic. Coelho offered a different kind of enchantment. His books, like “Hippie,” were like stepping into a vibrant kaleidoscope of experiences.”Hippie” wasn’t your typical coming-of-age story. It was a wild ride through 1970s counterculture, a time of rebellion, self-discovery, and a yearning for something more. The protagonist’s journey mirrored my own in a way – a yearning to break free from societal constraints and explore different ways of being.

Coelho’s vivid descriptions and relatable characters painted a picture of a generation searching for meaning and connection, a sentiment that resonated deeply within me.

But Coelho wasn’t just about reliving a bygone era. His stories, like “The Alchemist,” offered timeless messages about following your dreams and listening to your heart. His characters, flawed and relatable, embarked on journeys of self-discovery that served as potent reminders to stay true to yourself, even when the path gets challenging. His books weren’t always profound, but they were always engaging, weaving tales of adventure, love, and personal growth with a touch of magical realism that left a lingering aftertaste.

Coelho’s works were like pit stops on my literary journey, offering a refreshing change of pace and a burst of vibrant energy. They reminded me that self-discovery wasn’t always about deep introspection; sometimes it was about getting lost in a captivating story, letting your imagination run wild, and allowing the characters’ journeys to spark new reflections within yourself. Coelho offered the unexpected detours, the moments of pure joy and wonder that made the entire odyssey even richer.

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance was a splendid reading experience!Looking back, “Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance” feels like a turning point in my literary journey. It wasn’t just a story; it was a conversation starter, a philosophical spark plug that ignited a whole new way of thinking.

Pirsig’s exploration of quality – that elusive, ineffable essence that makes something truly good – resonated deeply within me. Here I was, grappling with questions about meaning, purpose, and the very nature of existence, and Pirsig offered a framework, a way to approach these complexities. His blend of philosophical musings and motorcycle anecdotes might seem unconventional, but it worked. As I followed his introspective journey across the American landscape, I found myself reflecting on my own internal road trip.The book wasn’t about providing easy answers; it was about asking the right questions.

Pirsig’s exploration of the “fuzzies” – those intangible aspects of life that bring meaning – challenged me to identify my own “fuzzies,” the things that truly mattered to me. Was it the thrill of a new adventure, the satisfaction of a job well done, the deep connection with loved ones? Reading the book became an exercise in self-discovery, a way to peel back the layers and uncover the core values that guided my life.

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance” was much more than just a good read; it was a catalyst for change. It opened my eyes to new ways of thinking, challenged me to define my own “quality,” and set me on a path of continuous exploration, both literary and personal.

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance” wasn’t without its challenges. Pirsig’s writing style could be dense at times, and his philosophical arguments weren’t always easy to grasp. But the effort was worth it. The book pushed me outside my comfort zone, forcing me to confront my own assumptions and beliefs. It was a reminder that the journey of self-discovery is never a smooth ride, but the destination – a deeper understanding of myself and the world around me – was an incredibly rewarding one.

Of course, countless sleepless nights were spent lost in the magical world of Harry Potter, no matter what spirit or physical age I was at the time! Hogwarts became a periodic refuge, a place where friendship, bravery, and a good dose of magic conquered all. But as I evolved, the fantastical elements of Harry Potter began to give way to something a little more…absurd.

Enter “The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy” by Douglas Adams. This quirky, hilarious sci-fi adventure became my new go-to for late-night reading. Its witty observations on life, the universe, and everything offered a fresh perspective, reminding me to never take things too seriously.

As my taste in literature evolved, so did the themes that resonated with me. While fantasy and humor remained constants, I found myself drawn to works that tackled more complex issues. Margaret Atwood’s “The Handmaid’s Tale” offered a chilling glimpse into a dystopian future, sparking conversations about feminism and social control.On the other hand, Khaled Hosseini’s “A Thousand Splendid Suns” painted a heartbreaking yet hopeful portrait of resilience in the face of war and oppression.These deeper dives into human nature and societal issues balanced out the lighter reads. But there was still room for pure escapism!

Pride and Prejudice” by Jane Austen transported me to a world of witty banter and blossoming love, while Neil Gaiman’s “American Gods” served up a fantastical blend of mythology and modern life.

The older I got, the more I gravitated towards non-fiction. “Born a Crime” by Trevor Noah provided a hilarious and poignant look at growing up in a multi-racial South Africa. “Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind” by Yuval Noah Harari offered a mind-blowing exploration of our species’ journey. These books challenged my perspectives and broadened my understanding of the world.

Looking back, it’s clear that books haven’t just been a source of entertainment; they’ve been a conversation with myself, evolving as I have. They’ve provided comfort, challenged my thinking, and opened doors to new worlds, both real and imagined. The best part? This journey is far from over. There are countless more stories waiting to be discovered, waiting to leave their mark on my ever-evolving soul.

(To be continued…)

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